THE MARRIAGE OF THE LAMB

The Jewish Marriage Ceremony

Jesus followed the marriage ceremony practiced by the Jewish people in Old Testament times in regards to "marrying" His bride, the church (Eph. 5:22-33).

A Jewish man's relationship with his Bride to be

Christ Jesus' relationship with His Bride to Be

A Jewish man would approach the girl of his choice with a legally binding contract/covenant. If accepted it was a fully binding agreement on both parties. Jesus approaches us and if we accept He makes a covenant with us

The contract would include the price that that man was willing to pay for his bride. The more he would pay, the more it would show his love for his bride. Jesus paid the highest price for us, sacrificing His life for us, shedding His blood. (1Cor. 6:19-20)

The contract was sealed when the man and woman would drink a cup of wine together. Jesus had His disciples drink of His blood and eat of his flesh and asks all of us to do the same. (communion)

Some form of benediction would be given symbolizing that the covenant relationship between the two had been established. At this time they were considered married. Jesus said do this (communion) in remembrance of His, until He returns.    (Mat. 26:28-29)

The man/groom would then leave the girl at her home and would depart to go to his home, usually his father’s house. There he would prepare a bridal chamber for them to honeymoon in. Jesus left to return to His fathers house to prepare a place for us. (Jn. 14:2-4)

The length of time before the groom returned to get his bride was usually a year. The actual timing of his return was up to his father. When the father said it was time, the groom would return for his bride. Jesus says only the Father knows when He will return. (Mat. 24:36)

While the groom was away, the bride prepared herself for their marriage. She would keep herself veiled in public, a symbol that she belonged to another and was set apart and bought with a price. We, the church, as His bride are to prepare ourselves for His return. We are to keep ourselves pure and unadulterated. (2Cor. 11:2)(Eph. 5:25-27)


Custom was the she was to have an oil lamp ready for her departure, as the groom was to come for her at night. We are to always be ready for Jesus’ return for us. (Mat. 25)

When the time came, the groom, along with his best man and other attendants, would leave his father's house in a torchlite procession (as it was done at night) and go to fetch his bride. Jesus will come back down from heaven and we will meet Him in the air. (1Thes. 4:16-17)

Since the bride did not know the exact timing of the groom's coming (she had an idea when it was to happen, but did not know the exact timing of his coming), the groom's arrival was preceded by a loud shout or shouts to give her a few moments to arise, trim her lamp, gather her things and then the groom would get her and bring her back (veiled) to his father's house and the place he has prepared for her. Jesus will return for us with a loud command, with the voice of the archangel, and with the trumpet of God announcing Him. (1Thes.4:16-18)

The groom and his bride would return to his father's house, where the wedding party and guests would escort them to the chamber. There the groom and his bride would consummate the marriage for the first time (be intimate). We return to heaven (Father’s house) with Jesus to be made fully clean (2Cor. 5:10) and then begin the wedding party. (Jn. 3:29)

After consummation, the groom's best man would announce the consummation to the wedding party waiting outside. The wedding party and the wedding guests would then celebrate the wedding feast for the next seven days and the groom and his bride would honeymoon in their bridal chamber for the next seven days. We remain with Jesus in heaven for 7 yrs.- during the time of the Great Tribulation on earth.

When the marriage week was over, the bride and the groom would emerge, the bride would be unveiled so all could see her face. We emerge with Jesus fully clean and righteous for all to see. and the great wedding supper would be celebrated. (Eph. 25-27)

After the marriage supper, the bride and groom would depart for their own dwelling place to live. Jesus (now with us His bride) return to earth, His rightful home, to rule forever. (Col. 3:4)   (Rev. 19:13-14)         (2Tim 2:12) (1Cor. 6:1-3)

A Jewish man's relationship with his Bride to be	Christ Jesus' relationship with His Bride to Be
A Jewish man would approach the girl of his choice with a legally binding contract/covenant. If accepted it was a fully binding agreement on both parties.	Jesus approaches us and if we accept He makes a covenant with us
The contract would include the price that that man was willing to pay for his bride. The more he would pay, the more it would show his love for his bride.	Jesus paid the highest price for us, sacrificing His life for us, shedding His blood. (1Cor. 6:19-20)
The contract was sealed when the man and woman would drink a cup of wine together.	Jesus had His disciples drink of His blood and eat of his flesh and asks all of us to do the same. (communion)
Some form of benediction would be given symbolizing that the covenant relationship between the two had been established. At this time they were considered married.	Jesus said do this (communion) in remembrance of His, until He returns. (Mat. 26:28-29)
The man/groom would then leave the girl at her home and would depart to go to his home, usually his father’s house. There he would prepare a bridal chamber for them to honeymoon in.	Jesus left to return to His fathers house to prepare a place for us. (Jn. 14:2-4)
The length of time before the groom returned to get his bride was usually a year. The actual timing of his return was up to his father. When the father said it was time, the groom would return for his bride.	Jesus says only the Father knows when He will return. (Mat. 24:36)
While the groom was away, the bride prepared herself for their marriage. She would keep herself veiled in public, a symbol that she belonged to another and was set apart and bought with a price.	We, the church, as His bride are to prepare ourselves for His return. We are to keep ourselves pure and unadulterated. (2Cor. 11:2)(Eph. 5:25-27)
Custom was the she was to have an oil lamp ready for her departure, as the groom was to come for her at night.	We are to always be ready for Jesus’ return for us. (Mat. 25)
When the time came, the groom, along with his best man and other attendants, would leave his father's house in a torchlite procession (as it was done at night) and go to fetch his bride.	Jesus will come back down from heaven and we will meet Him in the air. (1Thes. 4:16-17)
Since the bride did not know the exact timing of the groom's coming (she had an idea when it was to happen, but did not know the exact timing of his coming), the groom's arrival was preceded by a loud shout or shouts to give her a few moments to arise, trim her lamp, gather her things and then the groom would get her and bring her back (veiled) to his father's house and the place he has prepared for her.	Jesus will return for us with a loud command, with the voice of the archangel, and with the trumpet of God announcing Him. (1Thes.4:16-18)
The groom and his bride would return to his father's house, where the wedding party and guests would escort them to the chamber. There the groom and his bride would consummate the marriage for the first time (be intimate).	We return to heaven (Father’s house) with Jesus to be made fully clean (2Cor. 5:10) and then begin the wedding party. (Jn. 3:29)
After consummation, the groom's best man would announce the consummation to the wedding party waiting outside. The wedding party and the wedding guests would then celebrate the wedding feast for the next seven days and the groom and his bride would honeymoon in their bridal chamber for the next seven days.	We remain with Jesus in heaven for 7 yrs.- during the time of the Great Tribulation on earth.
When the marriage week was over, the bride and the groom would emerge, the bride would be unveiled so all could see her face.	We emerge with Jesus fully clean and righteous for all to see. and the great wedding supper would be celebrated. (Eph. 25-27)
After the marriage supper, the bride and groom would depart for their own dwelling place to live.	Jesus (now with us His bride) return to earth, His rightful home, to rule forever. (Col. 3:4) (Rev. 19:13-14) (2Tim 2:12) (1Cor. 6:1-3)